Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Weekend in NY




Thought I would share our recent trip to NY.



We rode in many Taxis!!!


Ate Yummy Italian food at Ciprani



Shopped!!! Check out the Apple store.. This glass cubicle sits above ground on 5th Avenue but the store is underground.

Rachel had to check out Julliard-she dreams of going there one day



We saw a show on Broadway!!! Mama Mia!!!!

It was a fabulous weekend!! Even the weather was NICE!! Baby H stayed with grandma!! He did this....

Friday, February 10, 2012

You can't hide from it!!! Chemicals


Recently, I've taken an interest in what's in our cosmetics. From shampoo, lotions, foundation and even deodorant. I've got two girls who love playing with make-up. Well not just make-up, bath products too! I don't think it's a big secret that chemicals surround us and are in everything. It's really hard to find a product with NOTHING bad in it. Although if you do read a label of your favorite bath product, more than likely you will not understand the scientific names. I'm trying hard to educate the girls that we have to be our own advocate when it comes to our health. Our government usually tries to protect us from harmful things-Right??? Well not when it comes to make-up. They actually don't have any say in what goes in our make-up. The Safe Cosmetics Act of 2011 is working to change all that and hopefully one day we can feel more comfortable about what we rub on our face and body.
So what are some of these harmful chemicals in our cosmetics?? Parabens, Cholorine, Formaldehyde, Lead??? Lead, yes lead is actually in most lipsticks. While "they" say some levels of lead are safe, several lipsticks have much higher levels. Do we really want our children smearing lead all over their lips? I don't!! Even if it is in small traces. Some of these chemicals have been linked to breast cancer, asthma, skin rashes, the list goes on. So how do you protect your babies precious little body?? It's not an easy task.
Harrison has had seborhea on his back since he was born. His doctor said if I wanted I could use Head and Shoulders on it or just leave it alone. I've tried leaving it alone but his poor back feels like an alligator. It doesn't seem to bother him. I decided I didn't like the doctors answer so I took him to see my dermatologist. She suggested a few other products to try. CeraVe and Mustela being two products to try. The CeraVe label reads about 20 different ingredients that I can't pronounce. Mustela is some better and prides itself with being Paraben, Phthalate and Phenoxyethanol FREE. Parabens have actually been detected in Breast tumors. Scary right??
Your going to laugh but I actually bought some cloth diapers a couple of weeks ago. Thinking I could save the planet and my baby's bottom, the cloth diaper kit came with a cover and three cloth diapers. Yes only three, it was a sample kit. HA HA!! I didn't hate the cloth diaper but it is soooo bulky that it makes fitting his clothes over the diaper difficult. The updated cloth diaper comes with biodegradable liners that you can throw away for those messy number 2's!! That's a plus from the days of washing it out in the toilet. My mom laughs and says "you try wearing a bath towel around your bottom and see how it feels". I've never worn a bath towel but I have worn a bulky pad and I know that's uncomfortable. Baby H (as Megan likes to call him) doesn't seem bothered by either cloth or disposable. But wait!! There's still hope!! I have found a company that makes a diaper that is free of alcohol, cholorine, perfume, dyes, phthalates, parabens, lotions, optical brighteners, PVC, heavy metals, organotins & formaldehyde, SLS & SLES and lanolin. OF course I had to copy that from their pamphlet!!! The Honest Company who was founded by Jessica Alba has a new line of diapers, wipes, lotions, laundry detergents, and bath products. If you go to their website https://www.honest.com/ you can try their products for free except for the cost of shipping ($4.95). I have already tried their diapers and wipes and besides the wipes being a little on the small side, the diapers are great!! No leaks!! Today the "Family Essentials" sample arrived. I can't wait to try it out!!!

My next great quest is to find make-up products that are free of all the chemicals. There is a website called http://www.ewg.org/skindeep/ that grades over 69,000 products. Sadly most of my make-up received a bad grade. It will even tell you what health concerns your product could pose. For example, my Laura Mercier tinted moisturizer has a low health risk in cancer, moderate health risk in developmental and reproductive toxicity and a somewhat higher health risk to allergies and immunotoxicity. It will also outline the ingredients in your product. Another great website is called Safecosmetics.org. It has several great articles like "what's in your products?", talks about government regulations, companies that are trying hard to make their products safer, etc.

So even with all this new KNOWLEDGE I have, I still got up this morning and used the same Dove Soap, the same F rated tinted moisturizer, and the same deodorant with aluminum. And even sprayed a little Phthlatate (perfume) on me. Just this week in the news "phthlatates could be making you FAT". Like I said..you can't hide from it. I guess you could compare it to eating bad foods, we know donuts are not good for us, we know that fried foods are linked to Heart disease but we still eat it!!! WHY IS THAT???



Monday, January 9, 2012

December 2011 Highlights



Megan and her friends gathered at our house to get ready for the Christmas dance at Chickasaw Country Club. They look so grown up and it's actually quite scary. Do they really look like 13 year olds? I wish I could say wear some more clothes kid!! Cover those shoulders but as you can see ALL the other girls dress the same way. As a parent...do you stand your ground and let your child be the ODD one or do you turn the other way?? I don't really want you to answer this question I'm just thinking out loud. I know you have your opinions but I'm not interested. The way I raise my family seems to be working thus far. When you have a teenager, you must pick your battles.
Rachel too went to a dance with her friend Sidney. Sidney has been her good friend since she was 3. They got ready over at Sid's house and unfortunately I didn't receive as many pictures.
And speaking of pictures...I'm the photo queen bee!! BUT would you believe I hardly have any of Christmas? Christmas morning..my very sweet husband let me sleep in, making sure no one woke me. As sweet as this was.. I missed the girls seeing their presents from Santa. He meant well. Yes I've been sleep deprived but I really wanted to see their faces Christmas morning. Some things husbands just don't get!! ANyway..my sister in law should be sending some pictures from Christmas eve. I didn't have my camera that day because I was too busy making sure Harrison had diapers in his bag. And making sure all the gifts were in the car to go to grandma's house.
More highlights to come from 2011. I'm going backwards. There's really no need to go all the way back to January since I posted something that month.

Monday, January 2, 2012

2012


Happy New Year Everyone!!! God provided us with the best little gift in 2011. I'm excited to see what 2012 has in store. I haven't had much time to write lately but I do hope to do "Highlights" from 2011. As far as New year Resolutions go.. I don't really have many except the same one that's probably on everyone else and that's to lose weight. I packed on 50lbs during the pregnancy and so far I still have 20 to lose. Everyone keeps saying it took 9 months to put it on and you should give yourself that long to get it off but I couldn't disagree more. I want it off now!!! So I'm trying to eat less since I can't find time for exercise right now. Yesterday I did manage a 2 mile walk. Today's weather was much cooler so I didn't want to get out with the baby. The girls start school tomorrow so maybe Harrison and I will do some Hip Hop Abs. Who knows!!!
Christmas was great!!! I think everyone in our family would agree that Harrison was the best gift of all and we all feel more complete with him in it. Dan's parents spent a week with us and we are grateful they were able to do so. In 2010, Dan's dad had had surgery and couldn't fly. I hope we will see them for many more Christmas'. We spent Christmas Eve with my parents and it was wonderful having everyone at my moms. Her living room just keeps getting smaller with the grandkids and MANY Presents.
Baby Harrison is sleeping right now and I should be doing the same. We are slowly starting to find a schedule. He is going longer between feedings. He is laughing and smiling lots. I must say he really doesn't cry that much unless he's hungry, sleepy or bored. Most of the time one of his 3 moms are holding him. I'm gonna miss the girls help tomorrow when they return to school. Although, they need to go back because they are bored at home.
I'll close there.
Once again.. Happy New Year and I pray everyone has a blessed year!!! Love to you all!!

Mom and Congress Woman

Mom and Congress Woman

Christmas Family

Christmas Family